Tow People Conversing Privately to the Exclusion of a Third

[بنت الأزور]

Tow People Conversing Privately to the Exclusion of a third

This is one of the problems that exist in social gatherings , and it is one of the ways in which the Shaytan divides Muslims and makes some of them hate others . The Prophet explained the rule and the wisdom behind it
:
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If you are three , then two should not converse privately to the exclusion of a third until you are joined by other people , because this will make him sad
.
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Reported by al-Bukhaari , see Fat`h al-Baari , 11/83

This also includes three people talking privately to the exclusion of a fourth , and so on

and two people speaking in a lang which the third does not understand , because this is undoubtedly a form of disdain towards the third , and gives the impression that they intend to hurt him , etc

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:
http://www.al-shaaba.net/vb/showthread.php?t=19282

[ابو احمد زيوت]

جزاك الله خيرا اختي الفاضله
هذا من الامور التي ما توصل اليها علم النفس الا منذ فترة بسيطه وعلمها لنا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قبل اكثر من 1400 سنه . نعم ان تناجى اثنان بين ثلاثه ولد هذا الامر شيئين الاول الحزن والاسى عند الثالث والثاني الشك وظن السوء فيما يتناجيان فيه وانهما يقصدانه فيما يدور بينهما .

[بنت الأزور]

Thank you my good brother Mohammad for your valuable comment
That is because Islam is the perfect religion
it is our birthright

[ابو عبدالرحمن]

جزاك الله خير ا

بارك الله فيك

[ابو عبدالرحمن]

Thank you

[بنت الأزور]

جزاك الله خير ا

بارك الله فيك

Thank you my brother
Allah bless you